Meet Lady Haque

So you are interested in knowing something about me? I am not a high maintenance, snobby, self-centered woman as some may have thought and I don't live just to suck someone bone dry...I'd rather die. I am however a very simple woman who enjoys life and wants to be respected, loved, spoiled and pampered.

I am SSBBW (super size big beautiful woman) who loves and respects herself and is "very" comfortable with who she is. I am not ashamed of my body nor will I make any apologizes for it. My body is the "perfect" body for me at this moment in time. I do not know what the future holds but for now I am content with the body I have. My body has nothing to do with who I am; it is only the house I live in. I refuse to be defined as a woman by the size and shape of my body.

I'm intelligent, confident, kind, compassionate, affectionate, very dependable, honest, sincere, and a fiercely loyal woman, who loves people. I worked briefly as a Customer Service Rep which gave me the opportunity to do something I loved doing and that is helping people. I am assertive, but definitely not aggressive. I also have a good sense of humor and a positive healthy outlook on life. I do my best to take pride in my appearance.

I love going to plays, museums, concerts and movies. It isn't always necessary to be busy doing things to make me happy. I am very easy to please, and love to be held. I am an excellent cook. I enjoy traveling especially to Europe I have traveled to Italy, Germany, Holland, Denmark, England and Norway. I am looking for that next big adventure, hopefully not alone this time

Hmmm, let's see what else? Sitting in front of a roaring fire with a nice glass of wine is a wonderful way to spend a quiet evening at home , but so is sitting around the kitchen table playing Scrabble or just curling up reading a good book.

I am the mother of seven wonderful living children and 2 angels. All of my children are now adults and I find myself not being needed as I once was. I think they call it the "Empty Nest" syndrome. I devoted my life to preparing my children for "real-life" and forgot to prepare myself for my life alone. I guess I was too busy raising them and time just got away from me. I am also the proud grandmother of 4 grandchildren with another on the way. How did I get to be so lucky?

Did I also mention that I am a singer? They say you are never to "old" to follow your dreams. So, here I am at 57 still looking to fulfill my dream of recording a CD. I am very passionate about singing. Music is what I hear when the whole world is silent. It is always in my heart, mind and soul. My voice is the extension of who I am. My dream has always been to share it with as many as will listen.

I believe one of the "The greatest thing you'll ever learn is to give love and be loved in return". I am extremely giving. I believe that unless you are willing to give your heart totally and completely, you will never know true love.

I "am not" online looking for casual sex so if that is your intent I wish you luck, it just won't be with me. If you are looking to play games go play Monopoly, not me.

Life is too short to spend it as a spectator. It's time to get in the game and live life to its fullest - honestly and fairly with confidence and dignity, with no regrets for tomorrow.

Okay, are you ready for what I am looking for in a man? I believe "ANY" relationship must first begin with friendship. That includes a relationship between a man and a woman. Do I believe that men and women can be friends??? Of course I do but let me be brutally honest I am not looking for "just" a friendship. I am a loving, caring, sincere, passionately compassionate woman that wants to be that and more to a very special man. But!!!!! It must start with friendship. It is always necessary to build a relationship from the ground up, shortcuts will "NOT" work. You must "FIRST" have that important foundation in place. So first and foremost I am looking for a friend to share my life with and maybe even fall in love. Anything else is an added bonus.

I am interested in a man who has character, class and principles, who is what I like to call an RRRF kind of guy Ready (meaning unattached. I am not looking to break up someone else's relationship that is way too selfish for me) Responsible, Respectful and Funny). If you can make me laugh you are a keeper. There is so much more that I am looking for but if you are RRRF you possess what I see as very good qualities to build a friendship with.

So you have all of those qualities. A piece of cake you say. Whoa!! Hold your horses, don't stop there, that is only a start. This should go unsaid but unfortunately it seems it is necessary to spell it out. Are you willing to treat me like a lady or even a Queen??? My mother always taught me to be a lady in the parlor (the rest of that saying won't be addressed right now).

You must know how to express your feelings and opinions and aren't afraid of your softer side. I am looking forward to exploring a relationship with a special man who values a woman for who she is and understand that sex is only a part of that. I want to share my life with someone who values the uniqueness I have to offer in every aspect of life, not just one. A strong intellectual, spiritual and sensual connection is equally as important.

Touch is also very important to me, receiving and giving. So you have issue with touching or being touched, I promise you I won't be happy. Let's face it, aren't we all looking for happiness???

I love truth, honesty and transparency in a man. A nice smile doesn't hurt either. If you have a nice smile, killer eyes and a voice that makes me melt, I think I may have just found my dream man. Okay so I'm dreaming. Shhhhh, if I am PLEASE don't wake me up. I also look for a man that can hold an intellectually stimulating conversation. Wanna talk???? There is nothing worse then my body and what you want to do with it dominating every conversation.

Are you willing to give 110% of who you are to a relationship should we advance beyond just a friendship? If you are willing to give your all and then some you are a keeper. If it is only a 50-50 relationship each party is only giving 1/2 of themselves. I am willing to give 110% of myself to the right man that means ALL of me. Can you handle that???

Hmmmm, can she possibly being looking for more you say??? I certainly hope this doesn't scare you off. I am not looking to be used, played, or treated as a desperate unlovable, undesirable and unattractive woman who will do anything just for the sake of saying "I am not alone". I LOVE myself so I am very content being with ME, but it would be so nice to share my happiness with someone very special. Not someone to complete me but someone to compliment the woman I am. Believe me I am a complete woman already

Are you still with me or have I scared you off??? This next paragraph is what I make sure to share with any man who may be interested in getting to know me (unfortunate for me there haven't been many who have been interested and even less that could live up to my expectations). I am totally and completely turned off by lies. If you can't be honest and upfront right from the start please don't waste my time or yours. Honesty and respect is key. A man that will lie to me does not respect me. If he doesn't respect me what's the point? Everything else can be negotiated as long as I can trust what you have to say. Don't be surprised if I insist that you prove what you are saying. I have been lied to more times then I have brushed my teeth and that has been a lot of teeth brushing over a span of 56 years.

Let me reiterate....I am NOT looking for a sexual hook ups. What an insult for a man to think that is all I am good for. I say spend some time getting to know me. You may be surprised to find out that I am a blonde by chose but, definitely NOT a bimbo. I may have been born at night but it wasn't last night.

As I stated before singing is my passion. In addition to sharing my passion for music, I love to surround myself with fascinating, interesting, creative, talented, sexy people who are full of life. Are you one of them??? Why not spend a little time getting to know me. What have you got to lose?

I am sure you weren't expecting a mini novel hehehehe. Oh well, better you know what I am really about now then to find out later you don't really know me at all or even worse you don't like me. This lady will always be a "LADY".

After reading this if you are still interested in getting to know me you might consider clicking NEXT to read about some of the special needs of a SSBBW. Let's see if you are really up for the challenge.

Lady Haque